1 Be the alpha male
Now we’re not suggesting that you become the top dog of your group.
You don’t really need to become the godfather of your group. Rather,
don’t be a pushover.
Don’t ever be taken for granted by your friends, and let them respect you for who you are and appreciate your company. Don’t make yourself look like the clown of the group just to get attention. A calm and quiet guy who commands respect from his friends will be more liked by girls than a jack in the box.
2 Respect yourself
You may consider yourself to be a great guy, but you need to think from another person’s point of view here. Do you really respect yourself? Do you try to cling to your friends and tag along everywhere, whether you’re invited or not? Do you feel left out and lonely when you’re out with your friends? Do they make plans without asking for your opinion? Do they forget to invite you until the last minute when they’re going out?
Then you don’t belong with those friends. They don’t respect you, and because of that, you don’t respect yourself. It’s better you find some new friends. When you’re not given any respect by your friends, you’d end up losing respect for yourself. And no girl would ever be drawn to a guy who has no respect for himself.
3 Don’t get fidgety
When you’re sitting down idle, what do you do? Do you fidget with your hands, shuffle your feet, play with your hair, move back and forth constantly, or do you sit back comfortably?
Never fidget, they’re a sign of weakness and self-conscious behavior. No one likes someone who fidgets all the time. If you’re really comfortable with who you are, you’ll learn to stay calm and composed. Fidgeting is a distraction and can annoy anyone, not just girls.
4 Calm voice
We’ve all met a few guys who are really annoying to speak to. They’re whining and grumbling all the time. Calm your voice down. Have you watched the heroes of your favorite movies talk? Did you hear Maximus or William Wallace whine and grumble like sissies when they were at war? Or were they calm and composed? Learn to speak with a low pitched voice that’s calm and pleasant to others’ ears, and you’ll see how much girls will love talking with you. After all, no girl really likes a guy who nags and whines.
5 Be a great conversationalist
When you meet a girl for the first time, you’d obviously know nothing about her. So think from her perspective and talk to her. Pop in a few questions and see how she responds. If she seems excited to talk about something, then continue talking about it. Otherwise, drop the topic.
We’ve all seen guys who drone on and on about new action movies, gizmos or football teams, when the girl is clearly not interested in talking about it.
Always remember that not every girl shares your interests. If you’re wondering how to get a girl to like you, learn to be a great conversationalist. You need to talk about what would interest the girl more. Be aware of the world around you, and stay up to date on regular events and trends so you can talk about something that can interest the girl you’re with
Don’t ever be taken for granted by your friends, and let them respect you for who you are and appreciate your company. Don’t make yourself look like the clown of the group just to get attention. A calm and quiet guy who commands respect from his friends will be more liked by girls than a jack in the box.
2 Respect yourself
You may consider yourself to be a great guy, but you need to think from another person’s point of view here. Do you really respect yourself? Do you try to cling to your friends and tag along everywhere, whether you’re invited or not? Do you feel left out and lonely when you’re out with your friends? Do they make plans without asking for your opinion? Do they forget to invite you until the last minute when they’re going out?
Then you don’t belong with those friends. They don’t respect you, and because of that, you don’t respect yourself. It’s better you find some new friends. When you’re not given any respect by your friends, you’d end up losing respect for yourself. And no girl would ever be drawn to a guy who has no respect for himself.
3 Don’t get fidgety
When you’re sitting down idle, what do you do? Do you fidget with your hands, shuffle your feet, play with your hair, move back and forth constantly, or do you sit back comfortably?
Never fidget, they’re a sign of weakness and self-conscious behavior. No one likes someone who fidgets all the time. If you’re really comfortable with who you are, you’ll learn to stay calm and composed. Fidgeting is a distraction and can annoy anyone, not just girls.
4 Calm voice
We’ve all met a few guys who are really annoying to speak to. They’re whining and grumbling all the time. Calm your voice down. Have you watched the heroes of your favorite movies talk? Did you hear Maximus or William Wallace whine and grumble like sissies when they were at war? Or were they calm and composed? Learn to speak with a low pitched voice that’s calm and pleasant to others’ ears, and you’ll see how much girls will love talking with you. After all, no girl really likes a guy who nags and whines.
5 Be a great conversationalist
When you meet a girl for the first time, you’d obviously know nothing about her. So think from her perspective and talk to her. Pop in a few questions and see how she responds. If she seems excited to talk about something, then continue talking about it. Otherwise, drop the topic.
We’ve all seen guys who drone on and on about new action movies, gizmos or football teams, when the girl is clearly not interested in talking about it.
Always remember that not every girl shares your interests. If you’re wondering how to get a girl to like you, learn to be a great conversationalist. You need to talk about what would interest the girl more. Be aware of the world around you, and stay up to date on regular events and trends so you can talk about something that can interest the girl you’re with
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